"Wanda ke sarrafa yara, shine ke sarrafa gaba."
Maganar wacece? Nawa ne. Ya tsara a raina a cikin watanni da dama da suka gabata yayin da nake ƙara ƙara al'amurran haƙƙin iyaye a cikin jawabaina. Me yasa na ci gaba da ƙara a ciki? Domin kuwa hare-haren da ake kai wa ‘yancin iyaye na karuwa. A zahiri, a nan New York, yana bugun mu kamar jirgin ƙasa mai ɗaukar kaya!
Wani abu mai kyau game da aikin da nake yi shi ne, nakan zagaya Jiharmu, da kuma ƙara zuwa wasu jahohi, inda na haɗu da mutane masu ban mamaki, da yawa daga cikinsu suna ba ni labarin kansu. Ko da yake kashi 99 cikin XNUMX na labaran da suke rabawa sun ta'allaka ne kan ta'asar da galibi ke faruwa kai tsaye sakamakon rashin bin ka'ida na gwamnati, wanda ke da alaka da annoba, amma duk da haka ina jin daɗin jin labarun mutane. Yana daga cikin aikina… bincike ne.
Ko daki ne mai cike da mutane 30, ko kuma zauren da ke cike da mutane 1,000+, labaran da mutane ke yi min bayan na yi jawabi ko gabatarwa ba su da kima. Ina samun haske sosai kan abubuwan da ke faruwa a cikin al'ummomi daban-daban, kuma zan iya zana kamanceceniya, yin ra'ayi, tsara bincike, sannan in raba bayanin. Ilimi iko ne!
Kwanan nan, na lura da ƙaruwa sosai a cikin labarun da na ji game da harin kai tsaye (ko sokewa kai tsaye), na haƙƙin iyaye. Waɗannan hare-hare galibi suna zuwa ne daga ƙungiyoyin gwamnati, ko ƙungiyoyin gwamnati na bogi (ba gwamnati ke tafiyar da su a hukumance ba, amma ana ɗaure su da igiyoyin jakar kuɗinsu, suna iya kasancewa). Don haka na fara haɗa ɗigon. Ba su da yawa da za a haɗa su, sai na gane, suna zuwa bayan yaranmu! A bayyane. Ba kunya. Da gangan.
Kuma da zafin rai ban taba gani ba. Amma ka san waye yana gani kafin? Wanene ya nuna min shi kuma ya taimake ni in gan shi a fili? Abokai na da suka girma a ƙasashen gurguzu, ko iyayensu/kakanninsu. WATO shine wanda yake lura da abubuwan dake faruwa a kasarmu a yanzu.
Na girma a matsayin ƙwararren ƙwararren ƙwallo a cikin shekarun 1980, wasan da Tarayyar Soviet ta mamaye shekaru da yawa. Wasu abokaina na kud da kud a duniyar skating su ne Soviet. Iyayensu za su firgita ni sa’ad da suke ba da labari game da layin burodi na sa’o’i da yawa da suke jira, ko kuma danginsu da suka tashi da tsakar dare kuma suka “ɓace” da tsakar dare, ko kuma gidajensu masu sanyi da suka same su suna barci cikin rigunansu na hunturu da takalmi don ƙoƙarin samun dumi. (Af, gidajensu ba su da sanyi saboda sun yi talauci da yawa ba za su iya siyan man dumama ba… saboda gwamnati ce ke sarrafa komai!)
A cikin duniyar wasan ƙwallon ƙafa ta duniya, kowa ya san yadda Soviets suka zo don mamaye wasanmu da ƙarfi, da kuma shekaru da yawa, musamman a cikin nau'ikan Rawar Biyu da Ice. Babu wanda ya isa ya taɓa su. Af, sun kasance ƙwararrun ƙwararrun skaters - masu ƙarfi, stoic, duk da haka suna da kyau. Umurnin su na kankara bai misaltu ba.
Don in inganta kaina, na yi nazarin su. Duk mun yi. Idan na kasance a wurin shakatawa ba tare da nawa ba, ko don gasa ko horo, zan iya fitar da Soviets a kan kankara a cikin bugun zuciya. Babu wata kalma da ya kamata a ce a tsakaninmu. Kamar yadda igiyoyinsu suka taɓa kankara ya isa ya sani. Don haka, menene “asirin” su ga mamayar duniya na wasan ƙwallon ƙafa? Sun dauki yaran tun suna kanana suka sanya su a sansanonin horar da su don wasan da suke tunanin yaron zai kware a kai. Yaran suna ci, suna barci kuma suna shan wasansu.
Wata bayan wata. Shekara bayan shekara. Shekaru goma bayan shekaru goma. Babu zabi. Kai ko iyayenka ba ku da ikon gaya wa gwamnati, “A’a.” Kun bauta wa ƙasarku ta kowace hanya da suka ce ku yi! Babu tambayoyi da aka yi. Ba a yarda da uzuri ba. Kuma ga waɗancan ’yan wasan da suka yi nasara (kamar ’yan wasan zinare na duniya ko na Olympics), danginku sun sami “lada” da wasu “ƙari” – amma kar ku kuskura ku nemi ganin yaranku suna yin tuƙi a cikin mutum, ko kallon su suna fafatawa a gasar Olympics… wanda ba a taɓa ji ba. Iyaye sun kalli yaron nasu yana gasa a kan ƙaramin, tsoho, TV a cikin ɗakin su! Waɗannan su ne labaran da suka ba ni.
Anan cikin Amurka, "gwamnati" da ke faruwa a rayuwar ku tana sannu a hankali. Yana fitar da hanyarsa zuwa cikin 'yancin ku, da farko sannu a hankali, yayin da suke shiga ciki, bi da bi. Sai ka farka watarana, kwatsam sai ka kare hakkinka. Wannan shine abin da nake ji kuma nake gani yana faruwa shekaru da yawa yanzu, amma musamman shekaru uku+ da suka gabata na COVID-19 mania.
Don haka, ba shakka, na yi wani bincike game da wannan hasashe da ke yin tasiri a raina, na gwamnati na son yanke zumuncin iyaye da yara masu tsarki tare da kula da 'ya'yanmu. A zahiri na buga zance na na sama a cikin injin bincike, kuma wata magana mai kama da ban tsoro ta bayyana. Yana da ban tsoro saboda an dangana shi ga Adolf Hitler a 1935! Ga maganar:
"Shi kadai wanda ya mallaki matasa yana samun gaba."
Don haka, ga mu nan.
Lokaci don misalin rayuwa ta gaske. Ka san koyaushe ina ƙoƙari in yi aiki da waɗanda a ciki. Ina tsammanin ƙarfin gaske. Don haka, har zuwa labarin harin haƙƙin iyaye, na raba irin wannan labarin ɗaya a cikin Substack na kwanan nan, idan kuna so, labarin shine. NAN. Ainihin labaran suna tafiyar da al'amura, tun daga iyayen 'yan makaranta da ba a ba su damar tsara wa'adin lafiyar 'ya'yansu ba, zuwa ga iyayen daliban jami'a ba a ba su damar shiga katunan rahoton su ba, duk da biyan duk kudade!
Ko da yake akwai jihohi da dama da a yanzu suke zartar da dokoki don taimakawa kare hakkin iyaye, ainihin KISHIYA yana faruwa a nan jihar New York. Na rubuta labarai da yawa game da munanan dokoki, kamar wanda zai buƙaci "cikakkiyar ilimin jima'i" a duk makarantu, farawa daga KINDERGARTEN da gudu kai tsaye zuwa makarantar sakandare. Ko kuma wanda zai ba da damar yara na kowane zamani su yi nasu shawarar likita, har ma akan ƙin yarda na iyaye (eh, wannan ya haɗa da canjin jima'i).
Amma akwai wani sabon lissafin ƙiyayya da ke kan tafiya, don magana. A zahiri ba "sabo bane," kamar yadda aka tsara shekaru da yawa, amma yana "motsawa" yanzu, ma'ana an sanya shi cikin ajandar Kwamitin Lafiya na Majalisar don kada kuri'a a ranar Talata 16 ga Mayu. Domin kudirin doka ya zama doka, yana bukatar a zartar da shi a kowace majalissar mu guda biyu (Majalisar Dattawa da Majalisar Dattawa). Don isa zuwa bene na gida, dole ne a fara fita daga kwamitin. Don haka a ranar 16 ga Mayu, mataki na daya zai faru… Kwamitin lafiya da ke karkashin jam'iyyar Democrat zai kada kuri'a a kai.
Kudirin shine A276b (makon da ya gabata shi ne A276a, amma sun tweaked shi, yanzu shi ne "b"). Zai ba da damar a ba da magunguna da alluran rigakafin da ake da'awar hana cututtukan da ake ɗauka ta jima'i kananan yara ba tare da sanin iyaye ko yarda ba! Don haka, wannan lissafin ya kawar da haƙƙin da iyaye suke da shi na sanin su kuma su sami zaɓi akan magunguna da alluran rigakafin da yaranmu ke samu!
Kudirin ya karanta a bangare:
A LICENSED PHYSICIAN, OR IN A HOSPITAL, A STAFF PHYSICIAN, OR A
PHYSICIAN ASSISTANT, NURSE PRACTITIONER, OR LICENSED MIDWIFE ACTING
WITHIN THEIR LAWFUL SCOPE OF PRACTICE, MAY PROVIDE HEALTH CARE RELATED
TO THE PREVENTION OF A SEXUALLY TRANSMISSIBLE DISEASE, INCLUDING ADMIN-
ISTERING VACCINES, TO A PERSON UNDER THE AGE OF EIGHTEEN YEARS WITHOUT
THE CONSENT OR KNOWLEDGE OF THE PARENTS OR GUARDIANS OF SUCH PERSON,
PROVIDED THAT THE PERSON HAS CAPACITY TO CONSENT TO THE CARE, WITHOUT
REGARD TO THE PERSON'S AGE, AND THE PERSON CONSENTS.
Kuna iya karanta lissafin gaba ɗaya NAN, amma wasu mahimman bayanai sune:
- Babu ƙuntatawa na shekaru a cikin wannan lissafin. Don haka mai shekaru 8 zai iya zuwa a sami harbin STD ba tare da iyayensu sun sani ba!
- Kudirin a fili zai inganta jima'i marasa shekaru.
- Zai iya kare masu lalata ta hanyar jujjuya dokar New York ta "Wandali mai ba da rahoto" wanda ke buƙatar ƙwararrun ƙwararrun masu lasisi su ba da rahoton zargin cin zarafin yara ga jami'an tsaro. Shin wani baligi mai hankali zai yi tunanin al'ada ce ga ɗalibin aji, (a bayan iyayensu) ya nemi allurar da ake zaton tana hana cutar da ake kamuwa da ita ta hanyar jima'i?
- Ya ce yaron zai iya samun daya daga cikin harbin, "
PROVIDED THAT THE PERSON HAS CAPACITY TO CONSENT TO THE CARE.” Don haka, wannan yana nufin mutumin da ke gudanar da harbe-harbe (wanda, ta hanya, mai yiwuwa yana da ƙarfin kuɗi don ba da harbi), yanzu zai sami ikon yanke shawara ko yaronku yana da "ikon" don yarda!
- Yana kawo illa ga lafiyar yaro. Yara ba su da cikakkiyar masaniya game da tarihin likitancin su don ba da izini da aka sani. Shin za su sani idan sun sami mummunan sakamako a baya ga alluran rigakafi a baya, ko suna da alerji ko hankali ga sinadaran alurar riga kafi, ko kuma idan akwai tarihin likitancin iyali wanda zai saba wa wannan rigakafin? Kuma yaya game da iyaye ko mai ba da amsa na farko da ke ƙoƙarin taimaka wa yaron idan sun sami mummunar amsa game da harbin da zarar sun dawo gida… ba za su san cewa yaron ya sami maganin ba tun da farko!
- Kudirin ya sabawa dokar tarayya, wanda ya sabawa kundin tsarin mulkin kasar. Dokar Rauni ta Yara ta Ƙasa, (mummunar doka daga 1986 wadda ta cire alhaki na shari'a daga masana'antun maganin alurar riga kafi da wadanda ke ba da maganin alurar riga kafi), yana buƙatar ƙwararrun kiwon lafiya su ba da kwafin takardar bayanin maganin rigakafi na yanzu ga iyaye / wakilin shari'a kafin yin rigakafin yaro tare da jerin harbe-harbe da suka hada da wasu STDs kamar hepatitis B da papillomavirus (HPV).).
Wanene ke matsawa a kafa wannan ƙazamar doka? Anan ga jerin abubuwan kyama, masu adawa da haƙƙoƙin iyaye waɗanda ke ɗaukar nauyin / haɗin gwiwar wannan lissafin. Wadanda ke da * kusa da sunansu kuma suna ba da gudummawa ɗaya ko duka biyun da aka ambata a sama na haƙƙin haƙƙin iyaye waɗanda na rubuta game da su a cikin Abubuwan Kayayyakin da suka gabata:
Amy Paulin - D
Catalina Cruz - D
Jeffrey Dinowitz -D
Linda Rosenthal -D
*Phil Steck -D
Harry B. Bronson -D
*Patricia Fahy-D
Harvey Epstein-D
Andrew Hevesi - D
Jonathan Jacobson - D
Chantel Jackson - D
Rebecca Seawright - D
Anna Kelles - D
Jessica Gonzalez-Rojas - D
Jo Anne Simon - D
Kai, shin akwai wanda ya lura da wani abu da kowane ɗayan waɗannan abubuwan baƙin ciki suke da shi?
An sake bugawa daga marubucin Mayarwa
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Bobbie Anne, 'yar 2023 Brownstone Fellow, lauya ce mai shekaru 25 a cikin kamfanoni masu zaman kansu, wanda ke ci gaba da aiki da doka amma kuma laccoci a fagen gwaninta - isar da gwamnati da rashin tsari da kimantawa.
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